Most intelligent women are actually very insecure about being women. Feminists have to constantly celebrate women for achieving things men did better generations ago because men are better at literally everything, even areas that are traditionally considered female. Cooking? Michelin Star restaurants are run by men, not women. Fashion? Top brands are run by men. Gay and trans men are like super soldiers sent undercover to ruin everything for women.
Men are tired of feminism. It's one thing to pretend to collapse when your wife punches you in the shoulder; it's another to let delusional feminists take a blowtorch to Western Civilization. Modern women thus face an impossible choice: continue to deny reality until men shove their faces into the toilet, or accept permanent inferiority and meekly return to domesticity to preserve civilization.
However, there is one area where women are unquestionably superior to men: being happy. This may not seem like a valuable skill, but it is actually absolutely critical. Men may be better at surviving, but women are better at thriving, and there is no point to surviving without thriving. The problem is that life always has both positive and negative elements. Surviving requires perceiving problems accurately to fix them, while thriving requires looking on the bright side to be happy, and this contradiction is not easy to resolve. Men specialize in logic, reason, and correctness, while women specialize in positive energy and good vibes.
Women work differently than men. When a man works, he implicitly assumes that his task is somewhere between really annoying and exciting but unsustainable. His goal is therefore to complete his work as quickly, efficiently, and correctly as possible and then go do something more fun. When a woman works, her goal is to complete her task as enjoyably as possible. She tries to be totally present, surround herself with beauty, and romanticize her life. She does not want to feel like she is working at all.
In due course they reached the noble river with its never-failing pools, in which there was enough clear water always bubbling up and swirling by to clean the dirtiest clothes. Here they turned the mules loose from under the yoke and drove them along the eddying stream to graze on the sweet grass. Then they lifted the clothes by armfuls from the cart, dropped them into the dark water and trod them down briskly in the troughs, competing with each other in the work. When they had rinsed them till no dirt was left, they spread them out in a row along the sea-shore, just where the waves washed the shingle clean when they came tumbling up the beach. Next, after bathing and rubbing themselves with olive oil, they took their meal at the riverside, waiting for the sunshine to dry the clothes. And presently, when mistress and maids had all enjoyed their food, they threw off their headgear and began playing with a ball, while Nausicaa of the white arms led them in their song.
Being happy makes women patient. A journey of a thousand miles is easy if you are enjoying every step! The more zen she becomes, the more energy she can invest in her tasks, the more beauty she can create, the more pleasing she finds her surroundings, the more effortlessly she floats through life, and the more patient she gets. Eventually she works so much, simply because she wants to, that she becomes good at her chosen tasks anyway; it just takes her much longer than a man, because she chooses to take her time and develop her unique style.
Thus a man has higher quality energy, while a woman has higher quantity. But quantity has a quality all its own! Beauty comes from quantity: sculpting a statue requires thousands of tiny chips from a chisel, not one mighty blow from a sledgehammer. So does health, which requires constant patient self care. All traditional female tasks, both in and out of the home, revolve around huge amounts of low intensity work. If men are protectors and providers, women are refiners and purifiers, constantly sorting the gold from the dross. The modern world is so ugly and unhealthy because we have tried and failed to replace women with machines, even if GDP has gone up.
Feminism is destroying women because the more they try to be logical, correct, and competitive, the more clearly they perceive their own inferior masculine energy, the less confident they are in their own value, the less they believe men will want to take care of them, the more they try to take care of themselves, the more clearly they must perceive the outside world, the more neurotic they get, and the weaker their natural happy, whimsical feminine energy becomes, until feminism becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Conversely, when a woman puts happiness first and logic and reason second and trusts that when things seriously go wrong she can lean on the men in her life, the more she relaxes, the happier she becomes, the more valuable she is, and the more men want to help her.
Civilization looks like a honeycomb. From a man's perspective, we are the glorious kings who solve the most challenging problems and go on the most exciting adventures, while women are merely the maids who clean our houses and the concubines who pleasure us. But from a woman's perspective, she is constantly swimming in - and indeed is - the ocean of beauty, acceptance, and bliss, while men only exist to keep women from becoming a sticky mess.
The honeycomb is so powerful because men provide the strength while women provide the durability. In India they say that Shiva cannot create without Shakti, but it would be more accurate to say that men do not want to create without women. The problem is that winning by definition requires reaching a positive goal, at which point the game stops. Women are the solution. He fights so she fucks, she fucks so he fights, and the combination produces endless joyful life.
Because men and women think so differently, marriage is very painful for both sexes. It does not come from natural affinity, but from a powerful desire to possess the virtues of our partner. Marriage feels so impossibly hard because it is ultimately transactional, and a dependent transactional relationship is never far from a manipulative hell where your partner tries to wring you dry. It takes a long time to build the confidence that you can handle your half and even longer to build the trust that your partner genuinely wants to handle theirs for you, especially when things go wrong.
Permanent relationships must be irrational, so it is actually the woman who leads their construction, by always being slightly more trusting towards her partner than she really is. As their bond grows, the couple eventually becomes so comfortable with each other that they no longer want to swap each other out, even for objectively higher value partners. Women do not want high status men; they want perfect men, and who can blame them? No woman is going to go through this long and painful process just to be bonded to a loser. The good news is that all men, simply by choosing to be men, are perfect. As long as we keep adventuring, we will inevitably keep leveling up. She doesn't have to settle, she just has to wait, and women are excellent at waiting.
Sex is merely the physical act of sharing her happiness with him. If a woman wants to electrify a man, she must speak to his soul. She must create a dream world where he is the conquering prince on a white horse and suck him into it. Her devotion to him then makes her dream real; she would not be submitting to him and taking time out of her day to please him if it were not. But since the dream comes from her, he must actually be her hero to maintain it. She wants him to win every battle; he wants her to win the war. He is constantly bending her, but she does not break.
For the same reason marriage love is represented in heaven by the most beautiful objects. I have seen it represented by a maiden of indescribable beauty encompassed with a bright white cloud. It is said that the angels in heaven have all their beauty from marriage love. Affections and thought flowing from that love are represented by diamondlike auras with scintillations as if from carbuncles and rubies, which are attended by delights that affect the interiors of the mind. In a word, heaven itself is represented in marriage love, because heaven with the angels is the conjunction of good and truth, and it is this conjunction that makes marriage love.
Eventually their bond reaches a critical strength and both partners permanently opt in, forming a single person. He is the brain; she is the heart. In addition to the basic transactional benefits of their relationship, their bond itself becomes the most valuable thing in their lives, and precisely because it is so important it is no longer really transactional. Their self-interests are now almost perfectly aligned, so when things go wrong they help each other recover rather than break up. She wants him to be ever more powerful, wise, and glorious; he wants her to be ever more beautiful, patient, and happy. The flows of energy between them may wax and wane, but they never stop. As long as their bond exists they are both winning and they are both happy, which then greatly increases their individual strengths, because everything they do is part of a larger picture that is very wonderful. And that is why God created women.
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